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DO YOU HAVE A SEEKER SENSITIVE CHURCH WEB SITE?
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Can you hear them?
The unchurched calling out for answers to life’s many problems? Calling out for
food and shelter to feed and house themselves and their families? Calling out
for help to be free of their controlling addictions? Does your church’s web site
relate or speak to them? Probably not. Far too often Christian web designers,
whether volunteer parishioners or professionals, hear the same thing, “Make our
web site tell all about how wonderful and caring our church is and the programs
it has for the church family.”
Traditionally, church websites have been
geared towards the church’s congregation, or viewers that have been brought up
in the church. These sites do not and cannot reach those who are unchurched and
really in need of God’s unconditional love. Most of all, these sites do not
offer anything to help these lost souls to first get out of their present
situations which would then make them more receptive to the redemptive power of
God. The last thing a starving person wants is a sermon, they want food.
I hope to show you in this message how to
reach out to those lost, broken souls who do not understand Christian-eze, and
have no interest – today – in seeking first the kingdom of God. It is my goal to
show you how and why you should design your church’s website to reach out to
these people and offer them hope for themselves, and, ultimately hope through
our Lord Jesus Christ.
The Weekly Bulletin Board
Far too often, Pastor, Reverend, Father your church’s site looks more like an
extension of your weekly bulletin filled with what are great and wonderful
programs and announcements for your congregation. Occasionally, you will insert
a sermonette that is geared to spark the interest of or give theological
teaching to those who attend a church on some level of frequency. You might have
an invitation to prospective members, or people new to the community to come and
enjoy the church’s fellowship. You may even have an invitation, prayer of
repentance and instruction for those who want Christ in their life. But far too
often nothing is included to draw in the unchurched – those of our society that
have never (or in their mind will never) set foot inside of a church’s front (or
back) door.
Watch Your Language!
The unchurched do not understand church-eze and simply won’t “fellowship”,
submit “prayer requests”, or participate in “worship”. To them, these are
totally foreign terms that bring images of cult-type behavior and “blind
obedience” to an illogical and impractical set of teachings.
The Amateur Web Site
Church web sites often look “amateurish” and cheesy. While churches are known to
spend thousands of dollars on print advertising in the Yellow Pages, local
newspaper, or community Christian guides, most web sites are the result of a
collage of topics and pictures thrown together with a cookie-cutter program like
MS FrontPage (FrontPage can be used effectively, but often is not. The over-use
of animated clips, up to seven different font styles and sizes, and huge image
files that take forever to load, add to the unprofessional web presence.
Real Life Problems
When addressed on the web, the common theme is to “take a stand” and to inform
the participant of the biblical mandates against sinful behavior. Little or no
content acknowledges that the “sin” is merely a symptom of the participant’s
spiritual condition, their powerlessness over the addiction, and the recognition
that God loves and WILL deliver them.
Does your web site offer help to those with
addictive behavior without conditions? Do you invite anonymous questions or
inquiry about drug, alcohol and sex addiction problems? Does and can your web
site offer these people help in finding their way out of these additive
behaviors, or does it preach condemnation for these activities? Can you help an
unfaithful spouse to renounce this behavior? Or, can you advise and counsel a
homosexual or a pregnant woman on abortion?
These people are most likely not ones that
will submit a prayer request – because in their mind God has never answered
their prayers. And, to attend a church service and be one of those foolish,
mindless, blind masses being led around by the nose is absolutely out of the
question. These people need help where they are and as they are. They are not
interested in being told what they are doing is a sin and they have no hope
unless they conform to the apostolic church’s beliefs. They are in pain and need
healing first, and then they might listen to the Word.
How about the fallen church member? Does the
site reach out to them? What about the church member or occasional attendee that
is dealing with homosexual tendencies or sexual addictions such as pornography
and/or masturbation? Or the parishioner that is involved with an extra-marital
affair? Or the woman who is fantasizing about the ideal man? Or the parent that
has lost control of their children? Is the message given to them on your site
one of condemnation or unconditional, non-judgmental help and love? Will they
feel comfortable confessing their problems without fear of judgment or fear of
their issues “getting spread around the church’s congregation?”
A father who has lost communication and
control of his children does not need the platitude, “You need to be a better
father”, but the help of a caring professional to explain why this happened and
how to resolve it. The teen who is ambivalent about his/her sexuality does not
need to hear a lecture condemning homosexual behavior, but help in understanding
who they are and why they have such feelings. Can they find this on your website
or within your church body? These are real issues dealing with real people in
real time. The church – yours and mine – needs to be knee deep in them with help
lines, referral web sites and/or a caring contact that can be “someone just to
talk to.” We do not want to be preachy and aloof, we must be genuine in the
Father’s love for everyone and forgiving. But, “How is this done?” you might be
asking.
The Leadership Takes the Lead
The process must begin at the top with the senior staff. You, as the leadership
of your congregation, must decide if you want to be redemptive when addressing
sin and lifestyle issues in and outside of the church. This is a major
undertaking and a decision that may require a great deal of prayer and
discussion time by the senior staff. It is far easier to say you love the sinner
and not the sin – or conversely, you hate the sin, but love the sinner than to
actually do it.
All involved must realize that addictive
behaviors are often the result of long-term bondage and/or lifestyles and will
not be changed overnight. The tendency to think a person has to be saved “long
enough” to be free of wrong behaviors is a misconception. The staff must fully
understand that salvation is a journey, not a destination. You and your staff
must understand and be willing to accept that a truly redemptive ministry and
web site WILL change the complexion of the church. The web site will reach out
to broken people who will arrive on your door-step with a mired of complex
issues.
A True Story
Here is a true story that illustrates both the issues you might face and the
real meaning of unconditional love for the sinner: A church pastored by a man
with a “call” to minister to homosexuals had an effective, redemptive ministry.
A young man whom God had led out of the lifestyle, decided to “evangelize” his
friends. One Sunday the pastor was called from his office where he was preparing
the Sunday morning message, to a commotion in the hall. The young man’s friend
decided to come to church, but wanted to do so in a disruptive manner (tired of
his converted friend’s preaching). He was in the hallway in a clear raincoat,
shoes and no other clothing. The pastor extended his hand, welcomed the visitor
and asked if he would mind wearing a choir robe during the service.
The genuine love and acceptance (of the person not the sin) was clear, and won
the young man over. The service continued without incident, and a relationship
was started that would later lead to effective ministry.
Point: The pastor was clearly interested in
the young man, and refused to be drawn in.
Point: This church of a couple of hundred effectively ministers to a largely
ignored segment in their community.
The Commitment & Planning
The senior staff will have to decide they want to address the needs of the
broken or unchurched as well as the church community. They will need to
completely understand the effort required and the commitment they are making.
Once this commitment has been made, a great deal of up-front planning MUST take
place to ensure success.
A budget must be determined to:
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Include a cost for Web Hosting.
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A cost for web design. (Sometimes resources
are in-house for web design, but like anything else, it will be difficult to
hold the designer accountable.)
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Site maintenance costs.
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Site Ideas
After you have committed to an amount of
money to allocate for the web site, you will need to determine how you want
the site to look. Always keep in the front of your mind that the site must be
designed in a professional manner whether in-house talent is used or a
professional designer is selected. Include the designer in the planning stages
of the web site and listen to their input as to what can and cannot be
accomplished within your budget.
The staff will need to commit to updating
the web site weekly with new articles, testimonies, reports and so on.
Remember that a stale web site looses it’s validity as a caring outreach. It
gives the viewer the impression that if you don’t care about keeping fresh
information out there, then what would make them think that you will hang in
there with them. It is also a fact that the more varied the presentation, the
greater the opportunity in reaching the target audience.
Please, in your messages, announcements, reports and witnessing, get rid of
church-eze. Then lay out the web site starting with the main page, have
content that deals with real life issues:
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Include weekly articles that speak to your target audience.
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Present vivid testimonies of those who have walked out of sin and
destructive behavior through the redemptive and restorative work of the Holy
Spirit. Be very careful not to have testimonies that simply say “Jesus saved
me and I never sinned again.” These testimonies ought to be true life sagas of
the journey from sin to salvation including all the pitfalls. Real people
telling their real stories.
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Determine the real life issues that exist in your community such as sex,
drugs, adultery, finances, gangs etc. When addressing these issues, you must
always recognize that a percentage of your congregation is secretly entrapped
in the same or similar behavior. Therefore, you need to provide:
a. A frank and open discussion of the behavior and its damaging affects on
individuals, families and communities.
b. A clear non-condemning guide to the redemptive power of Christ.
c. Provide an anonymous “I have a question/problem” mail/form that will be
directed to staff members for response. It is noted here that it is imperative
that these requests get prompt professional attention.
d. Along with the form, you might want to establish an online forum or
bulletin board where people can post questions, problems and opinions. A staff
person needs to monitor the board closely to police for disruptive and/or
vulgar messages, and to spot a seriously disturbed person that requires
immediate intervention.
e. And, finally, you will want one or more photo galleries. These can go a
long way in showing unchurched people that you are regular people just like
them. In your planning, be imaginative, creative and even bold in your design. To
lead them to salvation, you must first get them to stop on your web site, and
then scan the content to find something compelling that appeals to them. And
always keep your web site fresh and up-to-date.
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